How Do You Tell You Best Friend That You Are Bisexual?

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tumblr_pkuukbwb741vtcouio1_540Life is short, There are only a handful of friends who can be called best friends. Good friends can share a lot of secrets with each other, happiness and grief, Sure, including your sexual orientation. No one wants to hide their sexual orientation and live alone for a lifetime. Sometimes, Coming out to a close friend can enhance a friendship and help you feel more comfortable with your bisexuality.

1.Make sure your good friend knows a little about bisexuality. When you tell her about your sexual orientation, it doesn’t make her feel confused, and don’t know what you are talking about. You can try to find some topics about bisexuality and discuss with her before you come out.

2.Don’t use jokes about bisexuality, tell your thoughts very seriously. In order to avoid embarrassment, many people always talk about their sexual orientation very casually. People think that you are joking. I feel that in front of a good friend, there is no need to pretend that I am not confident and embarrassed.

3.Make sure to let your friend know how important they are to you. You must make your friends understand, even if you are bisexual, you are still the best friend. Friendship between you will not weaken. Tell her, you want her support and encouragement. They will probably feel honored and privileged that you have told them.

You deserve happiness. Never forget that. Many people say that if your good friend doesn’t support you as bisexual, you are no longer a good friend. I don’t agree with this point of view. We can’t force others to accept our sexual orientation. We can’t force others to accept it or recognize something that she is not familiar with. If my good friend doesn’t accept my sexual orientation, I will say, it doesn’t matter, we are still good friends, I hope that one day in the future, you will understand and support my sexual orientation. But if my good friend is ridiculed, striking or ironic after learning about my sexual orientation, I think I will end my friendship with her.

 

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Do I really need to “come out” as bisexual?

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tumblr_nfu3npJm2S1qbqma2o1_54hyjy.jpgA few years ago, I knew that I am a bisexual girl, and for a long time at the beginning, I felt very lonely and irritable, and even once wondered why I wanted to come out. Does itreally have to be done? I don’t know, I am confused about that and after a long period oftime, I gradually realized that everyone has different points for everyone, whether you arecome out or not, just be yourself.

1.Come out when you feel ready to.

If you are not really ready yet, Don’t follow the advice of the mainstream or others, have your own real thoughts, about come out.This is a very cautious thing, not a joke that canbe said at random.Come out is not for everyone. Once you come out to your family orfriends, you have to face other people’s doubts, objections or hates, and even many peoplethink you are sick. Even worse is a personal attack. If you don’t get enough support and understanding from your family or friends, I suggest you better not rush to come out as a bisexual.

2.Just don’t wanna feel alone.

If you think that come out as bisexual won’t make you feel lonely, it will vary from person to person, or maybe more lonely. Many people are so isolated by friends and family, some want to join some related organizations, but still can’t find themselves.

3.You can date some people as you like.

No, This is not as simple as you think. Finding a suitable bisexual dating object is a very difficult thing. Open minded not means you can date with everyone, it’s very hard to find a nice bisexual partners, especially threesome relationship is very popular. Women Looking For Couples, Bisexual Couples Seeking Female and so on. As I see dating as more of a romantic activity. All that really matters is to be yourself!

4.Labelling yourself doesn’t make date easier.

Labels are helpful for some people, and the people around you but can some times make you feel like you need to meet some expectations or be a certain way. You like what you like and that’s awesome, try your best to be open and accepting of yourself and don’t feel bad if your feelings change one way or the other. Sexually is fluid and can change over your life. You don’t need to put a label on it if you don’t want to. As long as you’re happy with how you feel then that’s all that matters.

It’s never too late to meet the one you’ve always wanted to date

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tumblr_oxlxfkrSKE1r0rf92o1_540There are more and more bisexual couples complained that hard to find and meet a nice bi woman or man through dating sites, so many spams and most of them for sex or fun, not only for the date.  But complaining doesn’t solve the problem. It’s never too late to meet the one you’ve always wanted to date. Here are some things, if you like, you can have a try! Maybe can help you to meet a nice bi.

1.No one is in charge of your happiness, except yourself

So, when the next feel miserable,
don’t give the finger to others.
2.What other people think of you is none of your business.
This world only has three things:
Your things, Other people’s business, God thing.
So, don’t mind being yourself, bisexual, lesbian or transgender, gay..
Just be yourself.
3.Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick.Your friends will stay in touch.
So, Remember to keep in touch with your friends.
True friendship will stand the test of any kind,
Thank for the time, space, and help you eliminate those who cry, laugh,
And the rest, please learn to cherish.
4.Lonely people will always remember his life occurred in each person.
 
5.Keep a smile and laugh more.
People who love smile is lucky.
Do you mind joining any bisexual dating sites? Especially some dating sites have to pay to become a gold member. Do you want to meet and date bisexual women or couples? Are you disappointed with many dating sites? If you are tired of dating sites, why not go out or listen to your favorite music? Deep breathing, self-massage, eat some frozen grapes, take a walk, exercise, drink a glass of water, call a support buddy, post on a support forum and so on….

Do You Want To End Up In “Straight” Relationships?

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53.jpgMany people that discover their bisexuality later in life, as I did, are already in long term opposite sex relationships. They often are not willing to end those relationships and either work out some accommodation to be able to express their bisexuality or they simply remain bi-celibate, depending on how their partner reacts/accepts their newly found bisexuality. I’m a bisexual woman, engaged to a man, and I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately.  But for most of my adult life , most of my family and friends considered me a lesbian.  I never really labeled myself either way, and I tended not mention the people that I was dating casually, so many of them didn’t realize that I was actively and frequently going back and forth.


Anyone can create the love and intimate relationships of their dreams. Bisexuals are the freelancers of sexuality. They’re not tied down to one rigid attraction. They’ll often say that they fall in love with the person, regardless of gender. In this way, they might be more evolved than the rest of us. For men, dating a bisexual girl means the possibility of fulfilling a fantasy of a threesome with two women.A straight man wouldn’t even mind much if his girlfriend cheated on him with another woman. He might just ask to watch the next time. Most women would emphatically state that no, they would never want to date a bisexual man. It would take a confident woman, one who was not only sure of herself and her desirability, but also extremely open minded about sexuality. Maybe someone who was bisexual herself.


Most bisexuals in relationships have partners of the opposite sex. Bisexuals are much more likely than gay men or lesbians to be married, and most have a spouse of the opposite sex. Bisexuals are much less likely than gay men and lesbians to say that their sexual orientation is an important part of who they are. Yes, truly the LGBT community is not really a community that bisexual people feel included or comfortable in from personal experience, It’s not as if I just can’t decide on which team I want to play on. It’s that I just might not want to participate in sport at all. 

Why bisexual women prefer to date bisexual couples?

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tumblr_nx8bizojik1uahaqco1_500Bisexuality is the sexual attraction towards both males and females. It could also be an attraction towards people of any gender identity or sex. Bisexuality has been observed in the human kingdom as well as the animal kingdom. Bisexual women are attracted to other women and men too. They are not attracted to everyone they see. They are attracted to a single person. Some bisexual women are scared of coming out. Even when a bisexual woman ends up marrying a man, it does not mean she stops being bisexual. Many bisexual women have the tendency of dating Bisexual couples. This trend has been the case for many of the bisexual women in the society.

REASONS WHY BISEXUAL WOMEN DATE BISEXUAL COUPLES

  •    They are attracted to both

Bisexual women are attracted to both women and men. This attraction is why they prefer dating a bisexual couple because in most cases they get attracted to both the man and the woman.

  •    They can commit to the relationship

It will be easy for the bisexual woman to commit to a relationship that satisfies both of her urges. She would find it beneficial because she does not have to stay feeling uncomfortable if she was in a same-sex relationship.

  •    Security

Some Bisexual women will date a bisexual couple to feel secure. They get the feeling of being in a family and also are sure that cases of infidelity will be minimal. This is because, for both the bisexual couple and the bisexual woman, their needs are met.

  •    Bisexual dating sites

Many of the Bisexual Dating sites today have bisexual couples looking for singles to have fun with. Some of the sites like Couples Dating.Org are purely for bisexual couples looking for singles that they can date and have a healthy relationship with. The bisexual dating sites are the greatest contributors to bisexual dating. They have simple steps to follow so as to get your match easily.

  •    Sense of satisfaction

Most bisexual women are attracted to a man and a woman at the same time. Getting into a relationship with a Bisexual couple is their solution to have sexual satisfaction. Dating a bisexual couple will give her an opportunity to be in a relationship with both a man and a woman. This is the satisfaction she wants.

  •    Great sexual drive

Bisexuals have a greater sexual drive. Some feel that to satisfy their sexual drive, they have to be in a relationship with both a man and a woman. This is what makes a bisexual woman to date a bisexual couple so that she can satisfy her sexual drive.

A bisexual woman will never prefer one sex over the other. They love both sex equally. They know who they are and do not like being mistaken as confused or indecisive. If a bisexual woman dates a man, it does not mean she is heterosexual. Neither does it mean that she is a lesbian when she dates a woman. Studies have shown that bisexual women are happier while dating a bisexual couple because she feels satisfied and contented with her sexuality.

Most bisexual couples are always finding their partners in the bisexual dating sites. Once they are married to either a man or woman, they go on to look for the other partner. They always find joy when they are in both relationships. This relationships are mostly built to satisfy sexual desires.

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