Some Views On Marriage


138945226781.jpgLove is not a commodity; the real thing cannot be bought, sold, traded or stolen. It is an act of the will, a turning of the emotions, a change in the climate of the personality. When a husband or wife is “stolen” by another person, that husband or wife was already ripe for the stealing, was already predisposed toward a new partner. The”love bandit”was only taking what was waiting to be taken, what wanted to be taken.

We tend to treat persons like goods. We even speak of the children “belonging” to their parents. But nobody “belongs” to anyone else. Each person belongs to himself, and to God. Children are entrusted to their parents, and if their parents do not treat them properly, the state has a right to remove them from their parents’ trusteeship.

Most of us, when young, had the experience of a sweetheart being taken from us by somebody more attractive and more appealing. At the time, we may have resented this intruder—but as we grew older, we recognized that the sweetheart had never been ours to begin with. It was not the intruder that “caused” the break, but the lack of a real relationship.

On the surface, many marriages seem to break up because of a “third party“. This is, however, a psychological illusion. The other woman or the other man merely serves as a pretext for dissolving a marriage that had already lost its essential integrity.

Nothing is more futile and more self-defeating than the bitterness of spurned love, the vengeful feeling that someone else has “come between” oneself and a beloved. This is always a distortion of reality, for people are not the captives or victims of others—they are free agents, working out their own destinies for good or for ill.

But the rejected lover or mate cannot afford to believe that his beloved has freely turned away from him— and so he ascribes sinister or magical properties to the interloper. He calls him a hypnotist or a thief or a home-breaker. In the vast majority of cases, however, when a home is broken, the breaking has begun long before any “third party” has appeared on the scene.

The same to bisexual marriage, Many people worry that after they have a threesome relationship, they will have a crisis in their marriage. I think this is a common misconception. This is a manifestation of not being confident in your own marriage.

What is it with our need to fast-track relationships? Be alone. Eat alone, take yourself on dates, sleep alone. In the midst of this you will learn about yourself. You will grow, you will figure out what inspires you, you will curate your own dreams, your own beliefs, your own stunningclarity, and when you do meet the person who makes your cells dance, you will be sure of it, because you are sure of yourself.

Why Do Bisexual Women End Up With Men?


Someone also pointed out that many bi women who marry men are polyamorous or have open relationships and are still involved with women. These things suggest the idea that bi women end up with men isn’t as simple as it appears. Yes, it is not a simple concept for either gender. Many bisexual men identify as straight because their primary relationship is with a woman and occasionally have sex with men. It happens to women as well, but observation as a therapist is that women often become emotionally attached to their lovers, while men, out of fear, stay emotionally detached.

There is a higher percentage of straight men who are cool with bi women than women, no matter the sexual identifier, who are cool dating bi women. Have you tried the dating apps but they’re frustrating with women because 90% of the time it’s couples looking for a third or a woman just trying to use your sexuality to experiment? But have to admit, it’s much easier to find a date in a group of bisexuals than finding a date in a group of mixed ( straight, lesbian, gay, kinky) sexual orientations.

If you want a child, It’s much cheaper to find a man to make that happen though. Also, men are way easier to find and date. And on a very subconscious level, it is just easier to be with men. Less explaining to family, easy option to start a family.

Reduce discrimination. Although people are more open-minded and more tolerant, there are still many people who discriminate against bisexual and LGBTQ people, and in many cases, they even rise to personal attacks.

If you are a bisexual who insists on monogamy, it is hard to find a suitable partner. You don’t feel like missing out and you don’t feel like you have to be with a certain number of women to prove your attraction to them. Please try to follow your feelings which ended up with another female or male.

You Don’t Have to Agree to an Open Relationship.


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Has your partner ever asked to open your relationship? Are you also skeptical of open marriage? We all know that it’s not easy to fall in love and get married, not to mention having an open relationship. Especially many married couples who want to try threesome or more, but they are also afraid of hurting their spouse, and they don’t want to deceive each other. So they have been holding back their desires in this regard. Not sure how to deal with it beyond almost all your sex dreams are about other people.

Don’t hide your true thoughts. You absolutely don’t have to do it if you don’t want to. No one can force us to do things we don’t like. No matter how much you love this person. Love does not have to be accepted, love is sharing, it is the feeling that occurs when both parties volunteer. Without respect, love lost. Don’t pretend to be indifferent, but die in your heart. Even if you know that he is bisexual, and even if you know that he will be interested in a threesome, you have to say your true thoughts. Not everyone can accept that their partner is bisexual and threesome.

Don’t have to force yourself to match his feelings. I’ve always found honesty is the best policy. Love is not something you give blindly. Everyone comes into your life for a reason, some good, some bad. They shape us and break us, but in the end, make us who we are. Nobody has a perfect life, everybody has a problem. Some people just know how to deal with it in a perfect way. Don’t force yourself to do unhappy things for the so-called harmonious relationship between husband and wife.

I have seen many couples have more or fewer problems when they are in a threesome relationship. Someone usually feels like they’re not getting enough attention. But there are many couples who have a threesome in common and also enjoy the process. It is an amazing experience you can share. No matter what reason, women looking for couples, couples seeking singles, it’s very popular. But if you don’t want to, you don’t have to follow the trend.

Helpful Tips To Avoid Scammers On Dating Profile.


0R8847SQE77%`J}1%[{$D38There are more crooks in this world than dating sites. No matter who, on many dating sites, you may encounter crooks because they are everywhere. All you can do is understand the tricks of some scammers and stop the loss in time. Here are some general patterns of scammers that you can learn from.

They Send Many Emails and Winks to Others.

Many dating sites allow users to send winks to other users for free and unlimited number of times, To get your attention, So many scammers send winks to many people at once time. You have no other way but to report and block him. However, many websites require membership authentication, and there is a logo in the profile of certified members. So choosing a bisexual dating website with a good reputation is also a kind of protection for yourself. Whether it is your privacy or money, there will be a good system to protect you.

They Avoid Phone Calls, Video Chats, and Photos.

Many scammers will not take the initiative to publish their real photos. Most of them are photos of others looking for on the Internet. They will not accept video chats or phone calls. Because they are afraid to expose themselves.  You can also search their photos on google, most of them are beautiful or gentleman. And you can also find that they have registered accounts on many websites.

They Ask You for Money.

Scammers are for money or sex, and the former are the most. Some people will attract you in the name of investment, others directly say that they need help and donations. If it comes to money, you need to pay attention at this time.  You can report to site’s owner.

They Describe Themselves Perfectly.

Many scammers often disguise themselves as successful people, single, lonely, and rich. Especially on some rich men dating sites. Others are making up pitiful accidents for themselves, soliciting sympathy from others, and seeking financial or spiritual help. Many people describe how they were hurt in their previous relationship, Win the sympathy of others. In any case, you must pay more attention to it, don’t get too deep.

They Reject Offline Dating.

Generally, network scammers rely on websites. Many of them refuse offline dating, because his profile is fake, and offline dating will reveal his essence.  They will refuse your offer under various excuses. My suggestion is that if you feel good about each other, but she always rejects you for various reasons, you need to pay attention at this time.

Bisexual, You don’t have to apply a label to yourself.


2019-11-02_cheerleader-kissNot everyone is willing to disclose their sexual orientation. Not everyone is willing to open their minds to accept different sexual orientations. If you don’t want to make a big announcement about it, that is cool. I hope for a world where no one needs to come out. But for others, it has been an extremely important step to living an authentic life and that shouldn’t be diminished. It’s your choice how to live the rest of your life. You go out on that stage now, and you show them how beautiful you are. Never let anything stop you from chasing your dream.

Even now bisexual people still aren’t fully welcome into society. Just cause they changed some laws don’t mean society accepts them fully yet. As a bisexual man, I think the worst part is if you are seen with another man then women think you’re 100% gay. And if you say you like guys sometimes, it detracts your masculinity. Especially, when you join any bisexual dating sites, Many people will think that you are a one-night stand. In the case that people don’t know you, they will guess a lot of your behavior and then spread the rumors about you. This is also the reason why many people are reluctant to say their sexual orientation.

The one ought to have the other. No matter what kind of counter-method you meet. Keep going. Don’t quit. Just like me, I’ll never be able to come out to my family or friends. Like it’s just one of those things where I don’t even want to risk damaging my relationships. I love them all but I know their perspective on LGBT.

The world is ready for this and I had been for a while. There are still so many people closeted who need to know they aren’t alone. We may have come a long way, but  we have a long way to go before it truly “doesn’t matter”! Love who you are and who you want, you don’t owe anyone any explanation.

What Does It Feel Like To Be The Only One In A Threesome?



When talking about threesomes, it’s not something that every other guy or girl does. People who’ve encountered threesomes know the work they’ve put behind to make it possible. In movies and TV, just rare wordless kissing is involved between strangers and the next morning they wake as nothing happened.

Whether you’ve thought of joining an existing threesome couple, invite a third horny individual or just wish to try this among your friends, we’re going to bring in some useful info from women who been through the threesome phase and know about how they felt and made it happen.

As a woman who had a threesome experience, people around me often used to ask about how I felt about the threesome.

Well, the answer here would depend on what type of threesome you’re having? Are you the only woman here? Or do you have your girlfriend with you to help you in the process? Are you looking for a bisexual threeway encounter?

While I was the only woman involved with two men, I needed to satisfy both of them. Most often men took “Viagra”, “strong pills”, etc. or anything making themselves last longer. Make sure to not expect too much as some men might be “quick”, while a lot of others like it “rough”. The whole experience is a mixture of a lot of emotions like excitement, anxiety, adrenaline rush, and happiness.

Most bisexual men and women report something similar. Here are a few men and women who’ve made their fantasy come true with lessons learned for their next encounter.

Two times isn’t a charm always.

Once I had a threesome with a casual guy date and a friend, and the meeting turned out quite well! A lot of fun was involved (plus the drinks) and the whole experience was lovely. However, while giving the second round a try, the process was completely a disaster.

It’s better to be communicative.

Open communication used by people while preparing (and on the scene) for threesome must be broadened to twosome encounters as the experience is quite lovely. With my experience, I suggest that everyone here is kind of okay. Is it okay to do these things?’ “Should I proceed on?’’ would you like to do now?

It would be necessary to make sure everyone remains to be comfortable, logistically, so people here aren’t bumping into each other.

Attentiveness makes things a little fun.

With my threesome experience I’ve learned that if everyone doesn’t get equal attention, someone would be felt quite left out. While everything seemingly appeared ok, until a woman cried out that she felt left out of the fun. This was a total mood killer as we just switched gears for consoling her. This whole thing was a weird experience for me”.

Being the only person in the threesome dating is a fantastic experience as you feel you’re being served by two people of the opposite sex at the same time. We all know that two is always better than one. This is the dream of most people who are eager to get involved in threesomes for an orgasmic joyride.

Is It Normal To Not Want To Come Out?


tumblr_ptdgzoGo0r1t480bc_1280We all know that June is a proud month. Many people choose to come out to their friends and family in June. That amazing moment when you tell someone you are bisexual and they say me too. We all know how difficult it is to meet someone who is as sexually oriented as you, and that person is your good friend. It is clear that threesome is getting more and more popular, But not all bisexuals can find their favorite date. Not to mention the threesome relationship. We should know that as a bisexual woman, It doesn’t mean you can’t marry a man. It doesn’t mean you have to have a threesome relationship. And if you marry a man, it doesn’t mean you are not bisexual. What I want to say is that who you marry is not related to your bisexual sexual orientation. And you are bisexual, not means you must come out to everyone.

1.But not everyone likes others to know their sexual orientation. Not because of timidity, weakness. Just think that sexual orientation is your own private thing, why do you have to make everyone know. The reason many people come out is that it is a stressful thing to carry a secret life. People want to express their thoughts and depressed emotions. But for some people, this is not a secret. It is just a sexual orientation of oneself. Just like some people have 10 fingers, some people have 11 fingers. The only difference is that the fingers are visible. The sexual orientation is invisible.

2.They are afraid of being laughed at by others, discriminating and scolding. Although we always say that just be ourselves, don’t care too much about other people’s eyes and arguments, but in real life, being misunderstood by others is really annoying. Although bisexuality has been recognized and supported by many people, it has not been recognized and protected from a legal point of view in many places. Especially threesome, many people associate threesome with one night stand.

3.If you say your own sexual orientation to your family or friends, there will be many changes in your future life. Many people are not willing to deal with these troubles, so they would rather not say it. Such as, People will ask, do you like more men or more women? Do you like threesome?

So it’s very normal to not want to come out. We should understand them, everyone is living in their own circle, it is best not to bother them. Come out or not, it’s their right. Just do what will make you happiest in your situation. Best of luck with everything! When you feel ready, come out, or don’t, it’s up to you.

How Do You Tell You Best Friend That You Are Bisexual?


tumblr_pkuukbwb741vtcouio1_540Life is short, There are only a handful of friends who can be called best friends. Good friends can share a lot of secrets with each other, happiness and grief, Sure, including your sexual orientation. No one wants to hide their sexual orientation and live alone for a lifetime. Sometimes, Coming out to a close friend can enhance a friendship and help you feel more comfortable with your bisexuality.

1.Make sure your good friend knows a little about bisexuality. When you tell her about your sexual orientation, it doesn’t make her feel confused, and don’t know what you are talking about. You can try to find some topics about bisexuality and discuss with her before you come out.

2.Don’t use jokes about bisexuality, tell your thoughts very seriously. In order to avoid embarrassment, many people always talk about their sexual orientation very casually. People think that you are joking. I feel that in front of a good friend, there is no need to pretend that I am not confident and embarrassed.

3.Make sure to let your friend know how important they are to you. You must make your friends understand, even if you are bisexual, you are still the best friend. Friendship between you will not weaken. Tell her, you want her support and encouragement. They will probably feel honored and privileged that you have told them.

You deserve happiness. Never forget that. Many people say that if your good friend doesn’t support you as bisexual, you are no longer a good friend. I don’t agree with this point of view. We can’t force others to accept our sexual orientation. We can’t force others to accept it or recognize something that she is not familiar with. If my good friend doesn’t accept my sexual orientation, I will say, it doesn’t matter, we are still good friends, I hope that one day in the future, you will understand and support my sexual orientation. But if my good friend is ridiculed, striking or ironic after learning about my sexual orientation, I think I will end my friendship with her.


Do I really need to “come out” as bisexual?


tumblr_nfu3npJm2S1qbqma2o1_54hyjy.jpgA few years ago, I knew that I am a bisexual girl, and for a long time at the beginning, I felt very lonely and irritable, and even once wondered why I wanted to come out. Does itreally have to be done? I don’t know, I am confused about that and after a long period oftime, I gradually realized that everyone has different points for everyone, whether you arecome out or not, just be yourself.

1.Come out when you feel ready to.

If you are not really ready yet, Don’t follow the advice of the mainstream or others, have your own real thoughts, about come out.This is a very cautious thing, not a joke that canbe said at random.Come out is not for everyone. Once you come out to your family orfriends, you have to face other people’s doubts, objections or hates, and even many peoplethink you are sick. Even worse is a personal attack. If you don’t get enough support and understanding from your family or friends, I suggest you better not rush to come out as a bisexual.

2.Just don’t wanna feel alone.

If you think that come out as bisexual won’t make you feel lonely, it will vary from person to person, or maybe more lonely. Many people are so isolated by friends and family, some want to join some related organizations, but still can’t find themselves.

3.You can date some people as you like.

No, This is not as simple as you think. Finding a suitable bisexual dating object is a very difficult thing. Open minded not means you can date with everyone, it’s very hard to find a nice bisexual partners, especially threesome relationship is very popular. Women Looking For Couples, Bisexual Couples Seeking Female and so on. As I see dating as more of a romantic activity. All that really matters is to be yourself!

4.Labelling yourself doesn’t make date easier.

Labels are helpful for some people, and the people around you but can some times make you feel like you need to meet some expectations or be a certain way. You like what you like and that’s awesome, try your best to be open and accepting of yourself and don’t feel bad if your feelings change one way or the other. Sexually is fluid and can change over your life. You don’t need to put a label on it if you don’t want to. As long as you’re happy with how you feel then that’s all that matters.

Whether You Feel Jealous When You Are In A Threesome Relationship.


CHbYSNaUAAI-pQ2Have you ever been in a threesome relationship? If so what conditions made you be attracted to a bisexual relationship? Can you comfortably watch your life partner with someone else or would you be jealous?

Been in a threesome relationship can feel awkward sometimes, especially when you imagine of someone else is having a sexual relationship with your partner which can sometimes make you jealousy. In Most cases, women looking for couples for threesome relationship are a common thing nowadays.  Feeling jealousy on a threesome relationship depends on the conditions and circumstances, you have with your partner. Bisexuals and threesome relationships can be a great sexual experience and can give you more experience and enjoyment especially when done on the right conditions.

A threesome relationship can sometime go wrong, especially when feelings are involved among the three partners, resulting to jealousy and hatred in a threesome relationship. Basically, to be involved in a threesome relationship and to avoid hatred and jealousy you have to do it in the right circumstances and agreement between the partners. It’s very possible to introduce the third person in your sex life and still live in a strong and a happy relationship.

Depending on your own perspective and agreement with your partner and to avoid crises and jealousy, you can decide for how long you want to be in a threesome relationship. For instance, you can decide to try it once or even regularly as far as you are comfortable with it and no jealousy among yourselves. Before considering to try out a threesome relationship it’s better and recommendable you discuss the major reasons why you want a threesome relationship.

If for instance, your intentions of trying threesome relationship are for enjoyment and gaining new experience, then it can be fun and a great adventure for you and your partner. In such a case I don’t think there will be any sign of jealousy since, you are all enjoying the new experience.

If you intend to involve yourself in a threesome relationship because probably one of you isn’t fully being sexually satisfied, or one has a strong emotional feeling of the 3rd person you want to introduce in your relationship meaning you prefer another person rather than your partner. This kind of a relationship is very dangerous as jealousy will develop its roots among yourselves, which can greatly affect your happiness as couples and relationship at large.

To be able to fight jealousy in a threesome relationship, you have to be honest about yourself and with your partner and engaging yourself in a proper communication can be a great solution in fighting jealousy in a threesome relationship.

In some cases it’s so funny that to some people sharing is not their thing, considering all people are different. This implies that telling such a person to share his partner in a threesome relationship will be a hard thing making it like impossible. And when you try your level best to make it happen, such a person will be in so much jealousy with his partner.

To ensure that your threesome relationship has no cases of jealousy you have first to love the fantasy. If both of you love threesome relationship fantasy, it will be much easier for you to have a happy, fun and full of memorable experience threesome relationship when you finally decide to try the real thing.

After you both decide to go on with a threesome relationship, you need to consider who your 3rd partner will be. Finding the 3rd partner who can be trusted and willing to participate in a threesome relationship can be a challenge meaning when you get one, it will be very important in considering their feelings to avoid jealousy cases.

You need to be open with your third partner, especially when there is no string attached in your threesome relationship. This will ensure that she does not catch feelings, that will make her jealousy.

To make it comfortable and to avoid misunderstandings which can result to jealousy in your threesome relationship, it’s better to discuss the sexual boundaries you will have among yourselves in a threesome relationship. Discuss this with your partner and even the 3rd person to make sure everybody is aware of the conditions.

To avoid any damage and jealousy in your relationship after wards, Make sure you take your time to talk to your partner about your experience in the relationship. Discuss if it was all that you hoped for. If it was fun and you both enjoyed it you can still try it again back later sometimes.