We all know that June is a proud month. Many people choose to come out to their friends and family in June. That amazing moment when you tell someone you are bisexual and they say me too. We all know how difficult it is to meet someone who is as sexually oriented as you, and that person is your good friend. It is clear that threesome is getting more and more popular, But not all bisexuals can find their favorite date. Not to mention the threesome relationship. We should know that as a bisexual woman, It doesn’t mean you can’t marry a man. It doesn’t mean you have to have a threesome relationship. And if you marry a man, it doesn’t mean you are not bisexual. What I want to say is that who you marry is not related to your bisexual sexual orientation. And you are bisexual, not means you must come out to everyone.
1.But not everyone likes others to know their sexual orientation. Not because of timidity, weakness. Just think that sexual orientation is your own private thing, why do you have to make everyone know. The reason many people come out is that it is a stressful thing to carry a secret life. People want to express their thoughts and depressed emotions. But for some people, this is not a secret. It is just a sexual orientation of oneself. Just like some people have 10 fingers, some people have 11 fingers. The only difference is that the fingers are visible. The sexual orientation is invisible.
2.They are afraid of being laughed at by others, discriminating and scolding. Although we always say that just be ourselves, don’t care too much about other people’s eyes and arguments, but in real life, being misunderstood by others is really annoying. Although bisexuality has been recognized and supported by many people, it has not been recognized and protected from a legal point of view in many places. Especially threesome, many people associate threesome with one night stand.
3.If you say your own sexual orientation to your family or friends, there will be many changes in your future life. Many people are not willing to deal with these troubles, so they would rather not say it. Such as, People will ask, do you like more men or more women? Do you like threesome?
So it’s very normal to not want to come out. We should understand them, everyone is living in their own circle, it is best not to bother them. Come out or not, it’s their right. Just do what will make you happiest in your situation. Best of luck with everything! When you feel ready, come out, or don’t, it’s up to you.