Some Views On Marriage

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138945226781.jpgLove is not a commodity; the real thing cannot be bought, sold, traded or stolen. It is an act of the will, a turning of the emotions, a change in the climate of the personality. When a husband or wife is “stolen” by another person, that husband or wife was already ripe for the stealing, was already predisposed toward a new partner. The”love bandit”was only taking what was waiting to be taken, what wanted to be taken.

We tend to treat persons like goods. We even speak of the children “belonging” to their parents. But nobody “belongs” to anyone else. Each person belongs to himself, and to God. Children are entrusted to their parents, and if their parents do not treat them properly, the state has a right to remove them from their parents’ trusteeship.

Most of us, when young, had the experience of a sweetheart being taken from us by somebody more attractive and more appealing. At the time, we may have resented this intruder—but as we grew older, we recognized that the sweetheart had never been ours to begin with. It was not the intruder that “caused” the break, but the lack of a real relationship.

On the surface, many marriages seem to break up because of a “third party“. This is, however, a psychological illusion. The other woman or the other man merely serves as a pretext for dissolving a marriage that had already lost its essential integrity.

Nothing is more futile and more self-defeating than the bitterness of spurned love, the vengeful feeling that someone else has “come between” oneself and a beloved. This is always a distortion of reality, for people are not the captives or victims of others—they are free agents, working out their own destinies for good or for ill.

But the rejected lover or mate cannot afford to believe that his beloved has freely turned away from him— and so he ascribes sinister or magical properties to the interloper. He calls him a hypnotist or a thief or a home-breaker. In the vast majority of cases, however, when a home is broken, the breaking has begun long before any “third party” has appeared on the scene.

The same to bisexual marriage, Many people worry that after they have a threesome relationship, they will have a crisis in their marriage. I think this is a common misconception. This is a manifestation of not being confident in your own marriage.

What is it with our need to fast-track relationships? Be alone. Eat alone, take yourself on dates, sleep alone. In the midst of this you will learn about yourself. You will grow, you will figure out what inspires you, you will curate your own dreams, your own beliefs, your own stunningclarity, and when you do meet the person who makes your cells dance, you will be sure of it, because you are sure of yourself.

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How Do You Find A Woman For Your Threesome?

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Lesbian-Friendly.jpgIn addition to one-night stands, many bisexuals want to try threesome, But many of them do not have the courage to speak out or act on it. In many people’s eyes, threesome is abject, or just for sex,The real threesome that comes together for love is few and far between.  But more and more bisexual couples are looking for a third party to join their life, not just for fun. In real life, there are also dare to face the media threesome people, They are not afraid of other people’s arguments and accusations, dare to show their true side.

But if you are bisexual and want to have threesome relationship, What would you do? Here are some of the methods available, you can give it a try.
  
1. Be bold to tell your bisexual friend your thoughts and try to get to know more bisexual friends. Trying to reach out to some bisexual couples and women and they are more likely to look for threesome.Many bisexual couples openly say they want threesome relationships, hoping to find a bisexual woman to join them.

2.The fastest way is to join some bisexual dating site. Some people still exclusion dating sites, It is full of misunderstanding and fear. I want to say is that they do not really understand these dating sites. Good dating sites are not free, because everyone understands that there is no free lunch in the world. So please under the conditions of your economic conditions, to join some suitable for their dating site.

3. Always tell your partner when you want a threesome. Respect and understanding are important among lovers. You can join some communities or bisexual forums to find your threesome relationship.

No matter what, Finding a suitable person is not easy, but not impossible, Whether you are looking for a man or a woman,The process is tough and the result is wonderful.

Not Everyone Wants To Have a Threesome

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find-right-person-threesome-1.jpgDating is hard enough, but sometimes it can be difficult to date someone with a different sexual orientation, especially someone who’s bisexual. People sometimes think that bisexual people aren’t “gay enough” or not “straight enough” to fit into the LGBTQ-Community which is completely wrong. I think a lot of it stems from the fact that some people don’t believe that anyone can be truly attracted to both genders. Others believe that if someone says they are bisexual it is because they do not want to admit they are gay. But, if you are attracted to both genders, do you want to have a threesome?

Most threesome relationships have two women and a male. Many bisexual or bi-curious people want to try some new things and adventure, young people are more likely to engage in three-ways than older people, as they are at a stage in their lives when they are interested in exploring their sexuality.

Before you try to find a unicorn, it’s important that you and your partner ask yourself why you want to incorporate a third person into your sex life in the first place.If you decided to try to have a threesome, let us be the first to congratulate you on adding this (potentially) very hot experience to your sexual history. And threesomes often lead to unexpected consequences, the lifestyle isn’t for everyone, take care of your unicorn’s feelings, wants, and needs. If you’re in a couple and one of you wants to spice things up by adding a third. I think you should know, Threesome can’t save your relationship, Because no one wants to feel like an outsider in their own relationship, and especially not while watching their partner bone someone else.

Are you ready? Bisexual

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The bisexual label/identity is often misunderstood—even by many bisexuals—to cover only those people who are romantically and sexually attracted to both men and women equally. But it’s not that simple. There are so many beautiful men and women in the world, the mind can’t help but wander.

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