Some Views On Marriage

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138945226781.jpgLove is not a commodity; the real thing cannot be bought, sold, traded or stolen. It is an act of the will, a turning of the emotions, a change in the climate of the personality. When a husband or wife is “stolen” by another person, that husband or wife was already ripe for the stealing, was already predisposed toward a new partner. The”love bandit”was only taking what was waiting to be taken, what wanted to be taken.

We tend to treat persons like goods. We even speak of the children “belonging” to their parents. But nobody “belongs” to anyone else. Each person belongs to himself, and to God. Children are entrusted to their parents, and if their parents do not treat them properly, the state has a right to remove them from their parents’ trusteeship.

Most of us, when young, had the experience of a sweetheart being taken from us by somebody more attractive and more appealing. At the time, we may have resented this intruder—but as we grew older, we recognized that the sweetheart had never been ours to begin with. It was not the intruder that “caused” the break, but the lack of a real relationship.

On the surface, many marriages seem to break up because of a “third party“. This is, however, a psychological illusion. The other woman or the other man merely serves as a pretext for dissolving a marriage that had already lost its essential integrity.

Nothing is more futile and more self-defeating than the bitterness of spurned love, the vengeful feeling that someone else has “come between” oneself and a beloved. This is always a distortion of reality, for people are not the captives or victims of others—they are free agents, working out their own destinies for good or for ill.

But the rejected lover or mate cannot afford to believe that his beloved has freely turned away from him— and so he ascribes sinister or magical properties to the interloper. He calls him a hypnotist or a thief or a home-breaker. In the vast majority of cases, however, when a home is broken, the breaking has begun long before any “third party” has appeared on the scene.

The same to bisexual marriage, Many people worry that after they have a threesome relationship, they will have a crisis in their marriage. I think this is a common misconception. This is a manifestation of not being confident in your own marriage.

What is it with our need to fast-track relationships? Be alone. Eat alone, take yourself on dates, sleep alone. In the midst of this you will learn about yourself. You will grow, you will figure out what inspires you, you will curate your own dreams, your own beliefs, your own stunningclarity, and when you do meet the person who makes your cells dance, you will be sure of it, because you are sure of yourself.

Is It Normal To Not Want To Come Out?

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tumblr_ptdgzoGo0r1t480bc_1280We all know that June is a proud month. Many people choose to come out to their friends and family in June. That amazing moment when you tell someone you are bisexual and they say me too. We all know how difficult it is to meet someone who is as sexually oriented as you, and that person is your good friend. It is clear that threesome is getting more and more popular, But not all bisexuals can find their favorite date. Not to mention the threesome relationship. We should know that as a bisexual woman, It doesn’t mean you can’t marry a man. It doesn’t mean you have to have a threesome relationship. And if you marry a man, it doesn’t mean you are not bisexual. What I want to say is that who you marry is not related to your bisexual sexual orientation. And you are bisexual, not means you must come out to everyone.

1.But not everyone likes others to know their sexual orientation. Not because of timidity, weakness. Just think that sexual orientation is your own private thing, why do you have to make everyone know. The reason many people come out is that it is a stressful thing to carry a secret life. People want to express their thoughts and depressed emotions. But for some people, this is not a secret. It is just a sexual orientation of oneself. Just like some people have 10 fingers, some people have 11 fingers. The only difference is that the fingers are visible. The sexual orientation is invisible.

2.They are afraid of being laughed at by others, discriminating and scolding. Although we always say that just be ourselves, don’t care too much about other people’s eyes and arguments, but in real life, being misunderstood by others is really annoying. Although bisexuality has been recognized and supported by many people, it has not been recognized and protected from a legal point of view in many places. Especially threesome, many people associate threesome with one night stand.

3.If you say your own sexual orientation to your family or friends, there will be many changes in your future life. Many people are not willing to deal with these troubles, so they would rather not say it. Such as, People will ask, do you like more men or more women? Do you like threesome?

So it’s very normal to not want to come out. We should understand them, everyone is living in their own circle, it is best not to bother them. Come out or not, it’s their right. Just do what will make you happiest in your situation. Best of luck with everything! When you feel ready, come out, or don’t, it’s up to you.

Whether You Feel Jealous When You Are In A Threesome Relationship.

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CHbYSNaUAAI-pQ2Have you ever been in a threesome relationship? If so what conditions made you be attracted to a bisexual relationship? Can you comfortably watch your life partner with someone else or would you be jealous?

Been in a threesome relationship can feel awkward sometimes, especially when you imagine of someone else is having a sexual relationship with your partner which can sometimes make you jealousy. In Most cases, women looking for couples for threesome relationship are a common thing nowadays.  Feeling jealousy on a threesome relationship depends on the conditions and circumstances, you have with your partner. Bisexuals and threesome relationships can be a great sexual experience and can give you more experience and enjoyment especially when done on the right conditions.

A threesome relationship can sometime go wrong, especially when feelings are involved among the three partners, resulting to jealousy and hatred in a threesome relationship. Basically, to be involved in a threesome relationship and to avoid hatred and jealousy you have to do it in the right circumstances and agreement between the partners. It’s very possible to introduce the third person in your sex life and still live in a strong and a happy relationship.

Depending on your own perspective and agreement with your partner and to avoid crises and jealousy, you can decide for how long you want to be in a threesome relationship. For instance, you can decide to try it once or even regularly as far as you are comfortable with it and no jealousy among yourselves. Before considering to try out a threesome relationship it’s better and recommendable you discuss the major reasons why you want a threesome relationship.

If for instance, your intentions of trying threesome relationship are for enjoyment and gaining new experience, then it can be fun and a great adventure for you and your partner. In such a case I don’t think there will be any sign of jealousy since, you are all enjoying the new experience.

If you intend to involve yourself in a threesome relationship because probably one of you isn’t fully being sexually satisfied, or one has a strong emotional feeling of the 3rd person you want to introduce in your relationship meaning you prefer another person rather than your partner. This kind of a relationship is very dangerous as jealousy will develop its roots among yourselves, which can greatly affect your happiness as couples and relationship at large.

To be able to fight jealousy in a threesome relationship, you have to be honest about yourself and with your partner and engaging yourself in a proper communication can be a great solution in fighting jealousy in a threesome relationship.

In some cases it’s so funny that to some people sharing is not their thing, considering all people are different. This implies that telling such a person to share his partner in a threesome relationship will be a hard thing making it like impossible. And when you try your level best to make it happen, such a person will be in so much jealousy with his partner.

To ensure that your threesome relationship has no cases of jealousy you have first to love the fantasy. If both of you love threesome relationship fantasy, it will be much easier for you to have a happy, fun and full of memorable experience threesome relationship when you finally decide to try the real thing.

After you both decide to go on with a threesome relationship, you need to consider who your 3rd partner will be. Finding the 3rd partner who can be trusted and willing to participate in a threesome relationship can be a challenge meaning when you get one, it will be very important in considering their feelings to avoid jealousy cases.

You need to be open with your third partner, especially when there is no string attached in your threesome relationship. This will ensure that she does not catch feelings, that will make her jealousy.

To make it comfortable and to avoid misunderstandings which can result to jealousy in your threesome relationship, it’s better to discuss the sexual boundaries you will have among yourselves in a threesome relationship. Discuss this with your partner and even the 3rd person to make sure everybody is aware of the conditions.

To avoid any damage and jealousy in your relationship after wards, Make sure you take your time to talk to your partner about your experience in the relationship. Discuss if it was all that you hoped for. If it was fun and you both enjoyed it you can still try it again back later sometimes.

How Do You Find A Woman For Your Threesome?

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Lesbian-Friendly.jpgIn addition to one-night stands, many bisexuals want to try threesome, But many of them do not have the courage to speak out or act on it. In many people’s eyes, threesome is abject, or just for sex,The real threesome that comes together for love is few and far between.  But more and more bisexual couples are looking for a third party to join their life, not just for fun. In real life, there are also dare to face the media threesome people, They are not afraid of other people’s arguments and accusations, dare to show their true side.

But if you are bisexual and want to have threesome relationship, What would you do? Here are some of the methods available, you can give it a try.
  
1. Be bold to tell your bisexual friend your thoughts and try to get to know more bisexual friends. Trying to reach out to some bisexual couples and women and they are more likely to look for threesome.Many bisexual couples openly say they want threesome relationships, hoping to find a bisexual woman to join them.

2.The fastest way is to join some bisexual dating site. Some people still exclusion dating sites, It is full of misunderstanding and fear. I want to say is that they do not really understand these dating sites. Good dating sites are not free, because everyone understands that there is no free lunch in the world. So please under the conditions of your economic conditions, to join some suitable for their dating site.

3. Always tell your partner when you want a threesome. Respect and understanding are important among lovers. You can join some communities or bisexual forums to find your threesome relationship.

No matter what, Finding a suitable person is not easy, but not impossible, Whether you are looking for a man or a woman,The process is tough and the result is wonderful.

Not Everyone Wants To Have a Threesome

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find-right-person-threesome-1.jpgDating is hard enough, but sometimes it can be difficult to date someone with a different sexual orientation, especially someone who’s bisexual. People sometimes think that bisexual people aren’t “gay enough” or not “straight enough” to fit into the LGBTQ-Community which is completely wrong. I think a lot of it stems from the fact that some people don’t believe that anyone can be truly attracted to both genders. Others believe that if someone says they are bisexual it is because they do not want to admit they are gay. But, if you are attracted to both genders, do you want to have a threesome?

Most threesome relationships have two women and a male. Many bisexual or bi-curious people want to try some new things and adventure, young people are more likely to engage in three-ways than older people, as they are at a stage in their lives when they are interested in exploring their sexuality.

Before you try to find a unicorn, it’s important that you and your partner ask yourself why you want to incorporate a third person into your sex life in the first place.If you decided to try to have a threesome, let us be the first to congratulate you on adding this (potentially) very hot experience to your sexual history. And threesomes often lead to unexpected consequences, the lifestyle isn’t for everyone, take care of your unicorn’s feelings, wants, and needs. If you’re in a couple and one of you wants to spice things up by adding a third. I think you should know, Threesome can’t save your relationship, Because no one wants to feel like an outsider in their own relationship, and especially not while watching their partner bone someone else.

5 Tips for Bisexual Couples Looking For Female

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tumblr_otigi6dNs01uxats2o1_540Mаnу women

Mаnу women hаvе bесоmе comfortable wіth thе fact thаt thеу аrе attracted tо оthеr women, but thеу оftеn hаvе nо idea hоw tо meet оthеr women whо feel thе ѕаmе attraction. It’s perfectly understandable. Mаnу оf uѕ hаvе bееn married, hаvе busy work lives аnd јuѕt hasn’t hаd thе time tо kеер uр оn оur social activities, lеt аlоnе socializing wіth lesbian оr bisexual women. Let’s tаkе а lооk аt fіvе tips bisexual couples whо аrе lооkіng fоr female wіll nееd tо accomplish the thеіr goal.

1. Online discussion forums аnd chat rooms fоr lesbians аnd bisexual women

Start searching Google fоr lesbian social sites, discussion forums аnd activity groups. Tаkе thе time tо post messages, gеt involved іn thе groups аnd join thе live chats. If уоu ѕее ѕоmеоnе whо piques уоur interest send hеr а polite private message tо introduce you. Mоѕt оf all, hаvе fun аnd gеt involved. You’ll share аnd learn knowledge іn thе process.

2.Thеrе аrе а number оf Bi dating sites online

Bisexual dating sites саn bе а great place tо meet women whо аrе lооkіng fоr thе ѕаmе thіng уоu are. Bisexual dating іѕ big business online ѕо іf you’re ѕеrіоuѕ аbоut wanting tо meet ѕоmеоnе thеn thеrе аrе ѕоmе thіngѕ уоu саn dо tо greatly improve уоur odds оf successfully meeting thе rіght woman online. Join ѕеvеrаl оf thе bigger dating sites. Write а profile аnd include а rесеnt photo оf yourself. Mаkе уоurѕеlf sounds interesting. Don’t јuѕt sit thеrе аnd wait. Browse thrоugh thе profiles аnd send а fеw friendly messages tо lеt women knоw you’re interested іn them. Finally, don’t stop tоо soon. It mау tаkе months tо find уоur Ms. Right. Anуthіng worthwhile іѕ worth thе wait, right? Give іt а lіttlе time аnd уоu mау јuѕt bе successful.

3. Social networking sites

Bе careful оf game players but thеrе аrе thousands оf potential friends јuѕt waiting tо bе fоund іn thеѕе networks. Mоѕt social networking sites аllоw уоu tо search bу geographic location (and sexual orientation) tо meet nеw friends іn уоur area, оr реrhарѕ іn areas whеrе you’ll bе traveling.

4. Gay аnd Bisexual bars

Larger cities аnd mаnу smaller towns hаvе gay аnd bisexual bars оr hangouts whеrе уоu саn meet lesbian аnd bisexual women. If you’re shy find а friend tо gо wіth уоu thе fіrѕt time, thеn gеt tо knоw ѕоmе folks ѕо уоu don’t hаvе tо gо іn alone. Dо а lіttlе research bеfоrе уоu go. Mаnу оf thеѕе bars аnd nightclubs hаvе а website whеrе уоu саn check tо ѕее whеn thеу hаvе women’s night, karaoke, shows, etc. Sоmеtіmеѕ it’s easier tо show uр whеn thеrе іѕ ѕоmеthіng оf interest tо уоu gоіng on. Anоthеr thіng tо bе careful оf іѕ alcoholics аnd druggies but уоu саn meet ѕоmе nice people оut аt thе bars аnd nightclubs.

5. Gay аnd lesbian social groups exist іn mаnу cities

A quick Google search mіght uncover а local Gay аnd Bisexual Center, Gay-Straight Alliances аt local colleges or universities оr еvеn а lesbian social group. Lооk fоr local lesbian mailing lists аt Yahoo аnd similar services. Sоmеtіmеѕ thеѕе groups hаvе websites оr print publications whеrе уоu саn introduce you. Thе mоrе уоu mingle аnd meet people, thе mоrе nеw people уоu wіll meet аѕ уоu аrе introduced tо friends оf friends.

Lооkіng fоr а partner thаt shares уоur orientation mіght bе а bit hard аt first. Uѕе thе points discussed аbоvе tо hеlр уоu reach уоur goal.

Are you ready? Bisexual

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The bisexual label/identity is often misunderstood—even by many bisexuals—to cover only those people who are romantically and sexually attracted to both men and women equally. But it’s not that simple. There are so many beautiful men and women in the world, the mind can’t help but wander.

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Why Bisexual Women Prefer To Date Bisexual Couples

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bgbgfbf.jpgBisexuality is the sexual attraction towards both males and females. It could also be an attraction towards people of any gender identity or sex. Bisexuality has been observed in the human kingdom as well as the animal kingdom. Bisexual women are attracted to other women and men too. They are not attracted to everyone they see. They are attracted to a single person. Some bisexual women are scared of coming out. Even when a bisexual woman ends up marrying a man, it does not mean she stops being bisexual. Many bisexual women have the tendency of dating Bisexual couples. This trend has been the case for many of the bisexual women in the society.

REASONS WHY BISEXUAL WOMEN DATE BISEXUAL COUPLES

  •    They are attracted to both

Bisexual women are attracted to both women and men. This attraction is why they prefer dating a bisexual couple because in most cases they get attracted to both the man and the woman.

  •    They can commit to the relationship

It will be easy for the bisexual woman to commit to a relationship that satisfies both of her urges. She would find it beneficial because she does not have to stay feeling uncomfortable if she was in a same-sex relationship.

  •    Security

Some Bisexual women will date a bisexual couple to feel secure. They get the feeling of being in a family and also are sure that cases of infidelity will be minimal. This is because, for both the bisexual couple and the bisexual woman, their needs are met.

  •    Bisexual dating sites

Many of the Bisexual Dating sites today have bisexual couples looking for singles to have fun with. Some of the sites like Couples Looking For Female. com  are purely for bisexual couples looking for singles that they can date and have a healthy relationship with. The bisexual dating sites are the greatest contributors to bisexual dating. They have simple steps to follow so as to get your match easily.

  •    Sense of satisfaction

Most bisexual women are attracted to a man and a woman at the same time. Getting into a relationship with a Bisexual couple is their solution to have sexual satisfaction. Dating a bisexual couple will give her an opportunity to be in a relationship with both a man and a woman. This is the satisfaction she wants.

  •    Great sexual drive

Bisexuals have a greater sexual drive. Some feel that to satisfy their sexual drive, they have to be in a relationship with both a man and a woman. This is what makes a bisexual woman to date a bisexual couple so that she can satisfy her sexual drive.

A bisexual woman will never prefer one sex over the other. They love both sex equally. They know who they are and do not like being mistaken as confused or indecisive. If a bisexual woman dates a man, it does not mean she is heterosexual. Neither does it mean that she is a lesbian when she dates a woman. Studies have shown that bisexual women are happier while dating a bisexual couple because she feels satisfied and contented with her sexuality.

Most bisexual couples are always finding their partners in the bisexual dating sites. Once they are married to either a man or woman, they go on to look for the other partner. They always find joy when they are in both relationships. This relationships are mostly built to satisfy sexual desires.

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Meeting bisexual women and men at coupleslookingforfemale.com

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Do you want to have a threesome relationship? Do you want to date bisexual women or couples? Life is full of all kinds of love, no matter what kinds of love you met, just be yourself. Just like couples looking for female, yes, they are bisexual and try to find the third partner join their life, experienced  threesome relationship, maybe it’s a long term relationship, maybe not, but they are still looking for and enjoyed.

CouplesLookingForFemale.com is a bisexual dating site, it helps bisexual women and men find and meet more bisexual fun and partner.tumblr_obay1iHLAd1v8f3fco1_500.jpg